Learn how to love your singleness

BEING A SINGLE WOMEN  

Now, this is a big topic, Learning How To Love Your Singleness! There are so many single ladies that ask this same question over and over, “how can I make myself happy without a man?”   It’s Easy! You must love the Lord Jesus and allow Him to be your companion.  The Lord allows us to go through certain stages in our lives for growth and we impatiently want to hurry the process.  The biggest complaint is being alone and desiring a company keeper but unfortunately, that eventually leads to sexual impurity, which is unacceptable to the Lord.

Ladies, I know it is very difficult to go through your lives looking at married couples that appear to be happy, when in many cases what you see is not real.  You are now mad at God because someone else has a husband and you don’t.  You can sometimes even become envious of other’s happiness, which again is not of God.  The devil is evil and will do anything to misguide you but you must trust in the Lord and wait for him to supply your every need.  In the meanwhile, you must Make Your Singleness Sufficient.  If you are not in church, start there and get busy.

Many single women are living their lives thinking of ways to attract a husband?  Unfortunately, in that pursuit they are attracting all sorts of spirits (con artist, cheater, free loader, abuser, etc).  Whether we want to believe it or not, the only one that can make that provision is God and it’s made according to our faithfulness.  God said, “He would withhold no good thing from those who walk uprightly before him”.  You don’t want some of the (Men Spirits) that I just named.   If you can just be patient and wait on the Lord, he will bless you for your faithfulness and when God blesses, He blesses real GOOD!

My advise, please don’t make your move to soon!  Be patient and let God do it for YOU!

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20 thoughts on “Learn how to love your singleness”

  1. Singleness…Where should I start. This story lets women know that it is OK to be single and to get a little time with yourself and the Lord. Embrace the singleness by getting to know yourself a little better and getting CLOSER to God and you will be alright.

  2. I have had my share of men in my days looking for love in all the wrong places. Once i stopped looking for love i found the man of my dreams. The single life gets a little lonely every now and again but as the blog says you have to love yourself and god first, and i did just that and ended up in the most gracious relationship i thought i would never find. So with that being said i am thankful for what the lord has given to me which is the man i have been waiting for my whole life and i have god to thank for that.
    Amen!

    1. CANDICE WALKER

      I HAVE BEEN IN SO MANY HARMFUL RELATIONSHIPS I JUST GAVE UP I DEALT WITH BEING SINGLE FOR ALONG TIME AND IT WAS HARD AT FIRST I FOUND THINGS TO KEEP ME BUSY AND OCCUPIED…….UNTIL ONE DAY THIS GUY THAT I WENT TO GRAMMER SCHOOL CAME ALONG AND SWEEPED ME RIGHT OFF MY FEET AND AT FIRST I WAS SKEPTICAL BECAUSE OF PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS BUT I OPENED UP AND ALLOWED HIM TO LOVE AND TREAT ME LIKE I NEEDED TO B TREATED AND FROM THAT DAY ON WE BEEN ROCKING AND ROLLING EVERY SINCE EVEN HAD A WONDERFUL LITTLE BOY AND FOR THAT I THANK MY GOD HIMSELF FOR ALLOWING ME TO GO THRU CERTAINS SITUATIONS THAT WILL ONLY MAKE ME STRONGER

  3. Singleness for me is very much new and it is very hard to embrace it after being in a relationship for 13 yrs with 2 children. I instantly went out looking for another relationship and end up being miserable and married for 10 years. Im now single and my kids are grown so im not looking anymore its hard to embrace my singleness but like you said if i embrace my faith and live my life the way I suppose to with my faith I may find a partner and I may not but Im in a good place because its in God’s hand.

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