A SINGLE WOMAN AFTER DIVORCE
It is real difficult to start all over after experiencing a life of marriage. We may not realize it but the very moment that hammer comes down and the Judge says DIVORCED, it is something incomprehensible. You know you are free but some parts of you feel it’s not over. You remain in a state of limbo for a while and many times go through separation pains of depression. However, if the divorce was not your doing or your fault and you did everything you could to make it work, it is time to move forward in the strength of the Lord. I say the strength of the Lord because many times we immediately start seeking another comforter unknowingly to take the place of the one you just lost resulting in a much worse predicament. You now need time with God and Him alone to learn how to love YOU! You were hand crafted by the Maker and He and He alone can only deliver you from the emptiness you are now experiencing and YOURSELF!
On the other hand, if you were the cause of the divorce and wasn’t what one would call the perfect wife, then you may continue to go in and out of future relationships. If this is you, you need Jesus. You will never be whole until you find peace with the Lord. It is not the person you divorces, it is YOU. You have most likely gotten rid of the best thing you ever had and the devil will not allow you to realize it until way down the road. Most women that think it is all about them and have no regards for marriage usually end up old and very alone. What they are not realizing, they are aging every day (time never stops) and still desiring to partake in the youthful things of life. Wake up! You have past that stage and now you are looking CRAZY! Some of your smart friends are still with their husband and you are out roaming from man to man trying to find happiness. It will never happen until you find YOU and the only way that can happen is first finding JESUS! He is the only that can bring total peace in the midst of a confused mind.
If you are single because of a failed marriage. Don’t repeat the same foolish things that put you in this position. Start your life over with JESUS! Learn to love Him and let him order your footsteps from this point forward. You will be surprised, when you least expect, God will bring someone in your life you never expected. This time, you will be prepared to be the wife the Lord has called you to be. My advise is to be patient and wait on the Lord. Do not get in a hurry (be anxious for nothing) or you will mistakenly make the choice and not God. Nine times out of ten, the one you choose will be the wrong one again and again and again and you will repeat your madness until you allow God to take control and order your steps.
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Wow know i understand!! marriage takes its tole one every and any one. As far as my parents go i have witnessed some of these situations and some i should have not. My mother was married for several years to my father and everything was good had turned bad. They separated but never got divorced and after everything happened couple years later my father passed away and they never got a chance to get over their differences. once again thank for showing this..
Reading this blog put a lot of things in perspective for me. I am blaming myself for things that was out ofmy control just trying to end a rotten relationship to begin a destructive one thinking that the destructive one was going to help me get over the rotten one I now know I was leaning towards the wrong things and not learning to love myself for the right reasons I needed Jesus in my life.
I’ve never delt with divorce before so i really dont know what it’s like i’ve been through a bad break up with an ex , but im sure divorce is nothing like just breaking up with a boyfriend , i can only imagine the pain , suffering and headace im hoping to nevr have to cope with a issue such as divorce